Monday, September 11, 2006

Where's Love?

Suatu hari aku & Keke lagi saling update cerita. Setelah puas cerita tentang kehidupan masing-masing, kita mulai pindah topik tentang seorang temen yang sama-sama kita kenal. Boleh dibilang, cerita cinta si M ini cukup dramatis. Setelah gonta-ganti pacar & hidup bak cewe-cewe cosmopolitan pada umumnya, dia sempet settle sama seorang cowok yang sepertinya sangat dia puja. Ngga taunya, beberapa taun kemudian mereka putus. Jadilah si M menjomblo. Sayangnya, kebiasaan-kebiasaan buruk si M yang dulu sempet ilang karena influence cowoknya, muncul lagi. The usual anak muda stuff lah ;) Trus Keke bilang “Kasian juga sih gua liatnya. Apalagi kalo dibandingin sama yang laen. Kita udah kemana, dia masih di “situ-situ” aja. Malah mundur kali!”
Hmmm…I never thought of it that way. Was Keke right? Kalo yang dia maksud dengan ‘kita udah kemana’ itu seperti udah nikah, pengen/punya rumah, pengen/punya anak, punya rencana untuk ‘naek kelas’ ke fase kehidupan selanjutnya, maybe she’s right. But maybe, M couldn’t help it. It wasn’t her choice to be single again. Keadaan yang bikin dia jadi single lagi. And to think that M wasn’t my only friend who had to go through these dramas…
Take my good friend Ecky. From her story, she always had a tough life, sebagai Kembang Desa Cisayong yang pindah ke ibukota :D Setelah bersusah payah adjusting dengan kehidupan di kota besar (hihihihihi maap maap, Ex.. Can’t help it) she also had an incredibly complicated love story :) Luckily, Ecky was smart enough to set herself free before things got waaaaay too tangled. And now, (I hope) she’s happier, she has a promising career, brand new (I hope good-influencer) friends, & no boyfriend. Yes, she still is single & yes, she still has a hard time too, being alone & all. Yes, there were times she was out of track, but who wasn’t? We all had our own wild times at least once in our life, right? … Right?RIGHT??? :D
Maybe falling for the wrong girls/guys, being drunk in & out of clubs, commiting promiscuity, heartbroken too many times, making mistakes which could never be forgiven or forgotten, were the things that some of us HAD to go through to get what we want. There are wrong, definitely. But at the end of the day, the point is how to be back on our sober feet, yes? Itu pasti yang dimaksud Keke. Supaya ngga di ‘situ-situ’ aja. Mungkin iya, si M masih di ‘situ-situ’ aja sekarang. Karena apparently she hasn’t learn anything from her past. Maybe it’s not her time yet, to be mature. Maybe just like the rest of us, she's still a little girl inside. Maybe she just need somebody to guide her to learn from her mistakes. Sometimes we do need to put our ego aside & ask to our parents, our siblings, our friends, to show us the right path. Personally, I don’t think that M’s wrong. Maybe her way to get things yang sedikit salah. But just like Ecky & some of my single friends, M is just looking for love.

The right kind of love.

To Ecky: Am proud of you & stay on track, girl ;)

3 comments:

Ecky said...

Friki.. you're the only one who can say things bluntly in my face.. Maybe that's what i need to keep me stand on my own feet like now. You're right, am happier now without those headache probs. Thank you for helping me to get out from ultimate disaster :). Till the right kind of love comes to me, amien :)

Farika said...

Amiiiiiiin Ekiiiiiiiiiiiiii :)
BTW utang lunas yaaa? Kan postingan ini dedicated to you! Hihihihhihi

rouf said...

Wah, kamu ama Keke kalo bicara pasangan dan cinta bisa luas gitu, yah?

Ya udah, dibikin buku aja tuh obrolan berdua...sapa tau best seller! :p (tetep)