Monday, February 11, 2008

Mendadak Kangen

I know he doesn’t like it very much if I’m writing (silly) things about him in my blog. But, honey, this is my blog. You want to publicize my silliness? Go write your own coz it ain’t gonna stop me :p

Yang kenal Ica, udah pasti tau suamiku ini paling seneng sama yang namanya belanja. Setiap ke mall, 99.99% pasti adaaaaa aja yang dia beli. Terutama yang berhubungan dengan fashion :p Entah itu baju, celana, sepatu, jam tangan, or other useless things. Mau itu sepatu merk & model yang sama, asal warnanya beda, ya dibeli juga. Kayanya sia-sia banget kalo pergi cuma window shopping. Unlike me, yang don’t mind just strolling in the mall, ngincer barang lama, baru dibeli, males browsing, males dandan or mix ‘n matching ;))

I don’t know why, but perhaps like any other wives, I like to nag about this particular habit of his :D I don’t see the point why a person has to have soooo many shoes, jeans or watches. Especially kalo cuma BEDA WARNA!! *sigh* So, setiap kali dia mau belanja, pasti aku cerewet. At least I demand some rational & if you know my husband, he ALWAYS has a reason for EVERYTHING :) Sepatu A ngga matching kalo pake baju B lah, ngga ada kaos yang cocok buat jeans C lah. Adaaaa aja! At the end of the day, I always give up. Sebagian karena bosen denger alesannya, sebagian karena ngga tega liat mukanya :D Apalagi kalo udah pake alesan: “Masa aku ngga bole nikmatin hasil kerja kerasku, Honey??”

Aargh! I’m such a weak wife! :)

Ngga jarang juga Ica ngeluarin trik-trik basi yang dia pikir aku ngga tau :p Misal, dari jauh-jauh hari, berulang kali dia ngeluh soal jeans A. Modelnya jadul lah, kegedean lah, kekecilan, warnanya ngga cocok sama kaos yang dia punya, etc. So, by weekend, saat dimana kita bisa jalan (& BELANJA), dikeluarin lagi keluhan itu. Since aku dah berhari-hari di”doktrin”, pada saat itu, jeans A jadi emang keliatan jadul :)) Ato, trik yang paling sering dipake, abis dia belanja, dia akan maksa aku supaya belanja juga. Supaya ngga feeling quilty tuh :p If I don’t feel like it, dia yang bakal semangat nyari. Aku tinggal nyoba, say yes or no. Even if I say no, he would still convince me & buy it anyway. Well, I guess it’s a good thing for me then :p

But lately I’ve been thinking. Sebenernya Ica ngga cuma seneng belanja, tapi emang seneng ngeluarin uang :)) Ngga cuma sama aku, tapi sama orang laen, dia juga generous banget.
Apalagi sama keluarganya DAN keluargaku, one of the things I admire from him the most :) That's also why dia sebel banget sama orang pelit. Tapi kadang aku ngerasa dia suka terlalu royal. Terutama sama orang yang sebenernya mampu. I think it makes other people rely too much on him on paying for things & eventually take him for granted. I don’t like knowing him being used by others becoz of his generousity. Kalo buat keluarga, supir, mba, tukang parkir, anak yatim & fakir miskin, he could & should spend as often as he can & I love him for it. Although, yang model begitu ada juga yang suka nipu & manfaatin (kaya 2 supir kita yang dulu). That’s why, menurutku, being generous harus diikuti dengan “kedisiplinan & pertimbangan” juga. I don’t think he quite agrees with me tho :D

But, that’s my baby love :) He can be an *$#! to some, but too damn nice to others at the same time. Setiap kali aku ingetin bahwa sebaiknya kita mulai berhemat, nabung, mikirin jangka panjang karena kebutuhan semakin banyak, apalagi insya Allah kalo Si Baiyi udah lahir, he just takes it lightly, says “Kan kasian, Yang”, & that I shouldn’t worry much & that everything’s gonna be okay.

Well... When I’m with you, Honey, I’m sure it will be :x



*Yang "nyuruh" nulis & kangen Si Baiyi, Mun... Ngga mungkin aku :D

1 comment:

Surti said...

wahhhhh...sama banget sama suamiku..hobbynya ke mall ama belanja, kirain dia satu2nya yg gitu hahah..anyway, salam kenal ya :)