Showing posts with label #letscelebrate. Show all posts
Showing posts with label #letscelebrate. Show all posts

Monday, July 24, 2023

Dear High School Girl

Or should I start with Dear Bubu?
I know it's hard and indescribable.
But yes your baby is now a HIGH SCHOOL GIRL!
Wait what? Is this for real?
It can't be true! 

She's just a little girl whose cheeks you bite and kiss.
Every morning you wake her up with the tightest hugs.
You whisper "Good morning Bebi..." into her ears. 
Again, followed by tons of kisses still.
But wait!

Ah... Yes... It IS real.
Look at the way she's rejecting you.
Feel the hugs she gives you back.
The teenager's ways. Casual and indifferent.
Unless of course, there's something she wants.

Dear Bubu,
Remember when she still needed you?
Every minute, every day.
And now she says "I can do it myself."
Proud? Definitely. Sad? Oh yes...

But hey! Cheer up!
Now you have somebody to talk to!
Conversations become spontaneously real
Secrets and girl talks.
Serious and deep.
Teary and funny.
Isn't it what you've always wanted?

Dear Bubu,
Welcome this high school girl into your rollercoaster life!
Celebrate her new chapter with pride and joy.
Never stop saying "I love you so."

Be there for her and listen.
Let her know that she's always your one and only.
Your high school girl-baby.

*Kukka's first day of high school*


Thursday, June 22, 2023

47

Dear you, 

Well look at that! Another year has gone by, against all odds, you woke up in pretty good shape and no filter needed. Feeling grateful of the good and still holding on to your dreams. Asking yourself "What do I don't have?" because of all the things you already surround yourself with. 

Strength, love and feeling content. 

Those are the greatest gifts you receive for you, from you. May these feeling last until that day come, when those who love you can only shower you with tears and prayers. While you, my love, are off to another journey to eternity. 

Amen.

Sunday, January 01, 2023

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2023!

 



Hop! Hop! Hop! 
Let's jump to 2023 y'all!
No plan is too big.
No effort is too small.

The Year of the Rabbit or just plain 2023.
Whatever you call it, let yourself be free!

Happiness doesn't need force.
Nature will take its course.

Love yourself and those who deserve it.
Share warm hugs in The Year of the Rabbit.

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2023! 
HAVE A HEALTHY, LOVELY AND FLUFFY ONE!

*Ica-Farika-Kukka*

Saturday, August 13, 2022

Dear Kukka: Say CHEESE!!!!

CHEEEEEESE!

YEAY!!!! The pain and the effort of putting on-off those annoying rubbers have finally paid off! NO MORE BRACES!!! CONGRATULATIONS BEBI!! πŸ₯³πŸ˜˜ What a journey! Your cute smile is getting prettier and prettier! Bubu's Bebi πŸ₯°πŸ˜˜πŸ˜ 

Do you remember when Project Kukka Denta started? It was in December, 15th 2021 by drg. Ardiny Andriany, Sp. Ort., at Klinik Denta. And yesterday the dentist took your braces off! So it means that it only took... 8 months for you to have your teeth fixed! 😱 

Actually drg. Dini told us that you could take the braces off in August, 1st. But you weren't ready. To tell you the truth nor was I πŸ˜„ Because in my mind a person has to wear braces like... Oh I don't know! At least 1,5 - 2 years??? Because in my time (AGES AGO πŸ˜‚) that's how long it takes to have your teeth perfectly fixed! But apparently not anymore! Thanks to technology! πŸ˜† drg. Dini also told me that your case wasn't complicated. Your teeth and mouth structure are in good shape. They just needed a little bit of work here and there. But then you said "I need more time." I said "Whatever makes you comfortable, baby!" 😘 So after drg. Dini fixed the loose bracket we went home with you still wearing braces. 

Buuuut 2 weeks later...mmm...fate interfered? πŸ˜† When you were eating on Monday, August 1st, one of the brackets fell off! πŸ˜… So rather than having it glued again I said "Why don't you get the braces removed for good? The dentist DID say that your teeth are now already perfect." As far as I can remember you didn't even think twice and said yes πŸ˜„ 

So I made an appointment with drg. Dini on Friday, August 12th. It took 3 hours for drg. Dini to work on your teeth. The removing part was actually pretty fast. It was the cleaning and waiting for the retainers to be finished which took a long time. About the retainers... Check this out if you want to know more about it: How Orthodontic Retainers Are Made. Apparently nowadays there's this type of retainer which fits in over your teeth. The retainer looks clear which makes it seems invisible. First thing first: scanning! 

For 2 sets of retainers we had to wait for about 45 minutes. After that you had to pay attention to the dentist's instruction and you had to try to put-take off the retainer yourself. It was quite tricky πŸ˜… But it was nothing that you couldn't do 😊 Finally after more than 3 tiring hours at the dentist the session was finished. Before we went home, drg. Dini reminded us: 

"Untuk 3 bulan pertama retainer dipakai sepanjang hari, kecuali saat makan, minum selain air putih, dan sikat gigi. Setelah 3 bulan, retainer cukup dipakai saat tidur saja, seumur hidup selama Kukka ingin menjaga posisi gigi sama persis dengan saat braces dilepas."

We thanked drg. Dini for everything and said goodbye. The second you got your braces off I took a picture and sent it to SiBapa. He was very surprised by how fast the whole process was. SiBapa also said that you look different 😊 

To celebrate "Copot Braces" the two of us had delicious dinner at your favorite restaurant Popolamama in Aeon. I watched you enjoyed a plate full of garlic bread, a big portion of spaghetti and a big glass of chocolate shake πŸ˜„ I was very happy for you because I know how annoying it is to eat if you wear braces. It's like... You can only enjoy 80% of your food. Right?! πŸ˜‚ Not to mention the effort you need to clean your teeth afterwards! But now not anymore! 

Project Kukka Denta is finished! πŸ₯³ Congratulations Bebinya Bubu 😘 Take good care of your teeth and remember: SMILE! πŸ₯°

Saturday, July 16, 2022

Happy 14!

Fierce as a lioness. Gentle as a lamb. Firm and funny. Curious and brave. Your voice surely lights up every corner of my heart. Your presence assures me there's such thing as new hope and millions of miracles. Every day I see you become much more than a teenager. More of a young lady with a mind of her own. Arts, opinions, plans and dreams. Some are shared, more still waiting to be heard and seen.


My Precious Godsend

My love, my life, my everything. 

That special day is here again. 

The day The Almighty sent me a wonder. 

The day when I felt ΓΌber lucky ever since. 

A mother's prayer is the best gift one could get they say.

Accept my neverending prayers, my most sincere amens.

Be kind, be helpful, be grateful.

Share nice words, polite hellos and genuine smiles.

Those things will make your life more than just okay. 

I wish you a very happy and blissful day.

  Bubu's Bebi, 

HAPPY 14th BIRTHDAY πŸ₯° 

Thursday, July 14, 2022

New Promise + New Class = FUN

A promise is made to be kept, fulfilled. In my case it was actually a nazr. That if my Precious Godsend successfully graduated to Class 9, I would take our house crew, Dewi-Yuli-Ari, to dinner. This time we decided to take them to have dinner at Outback Steakhouse. How we came to decide to have steaks was because of our talk about food πŸ˜„ Usually this kind of conversation occurs when I'm having my morning coffee while Dewi is cooking and Yuli is cleaning up the bedrooms. The maids talk about how their bosses like to treat them with adventures including trying out delicious, and in their case, unusual food πŸ˜„ Duck King, Sushi Tei, Chung Gi Wa, ... and others. Sadly I can't remember any of those moments πŸ˜” Thankfully I always take-post the pictures! So while I was looking at the pictures I went something like "Kalo makan steak udah pernah belom?". I could see their faces lit up immediately πŸ˜‚ I guess they know SiBapa and SiBubu very good. The Dynamic Duo (Dewi Yuli) answered, or should I say, practically screamed "Belom pernah Bu! Ya kalo yang murah sih udah pernah ya! Stik tenda gitu, bu!" I laughed and asked "Oh emang Bapa belum pernah ngajak ke Outback ya?" Minutes after that all I could hear was "Belom buuu! Belom!" πŸ˜† And that was how it began.

First thing first. I told SiBapa about my nazr and asked for his permission. Of course he said yes and told us to have fun πŸ₯° Sadly he's still in Bali so he couldn't join us. When I told the crew about it they were actually happy πŸ˜‚ "Kalo sama Bapa bawaannya tegang, Bu..." among other things which I totally understand πŸ˜† So the next thing I knew I made a reservation at Outback Steakhouse for Wednesday at 7pm. Why Outback? Well... That was the first steakhouse restaurant which came across my mind. Also it's in PIM 1, not too far from home. So why not πŸ˜‹

As I predicted, yesterday the maids came extra early. I watched them work until ... "Bu, Dewi sama Yuli pamit pulang awal ya... Mau mandi sama dandan dulu. Semua kerjaan udah beres, bu. Nanti jam setengah 6 kita udah di sini lagi. Yuli juga mau minum Antimo dulu supaya ngga mabok naek mobil." Both of them grinned with eyes full of excitement πŸ˜† Even Ari went home early. They came back at 5:30pm, all dolled up and ready to have a good time. It was a good decision to leave sooner because the traffic was pretty bad. But thankfully we arrived right on time 😊

The restaurant wasn't packed but I was suprised to see lots of guests on a weekday. I also thought that Outback is like... This old place where the youngsters wouldn't come to visit. But apparently I was wrong. Next to our table there were like 3 or 4 tables set together and the guests were all... Young people πŸ˜„ I think it was a birthday celebration. While on the other side of our table there was a young man enjoying his steak and beer all by himself. Yuli, the outspoken one, asked "Kalo orang luar, ato orang item kaya di meja sebelah, emang suka makan sendiri gitu ya bu?" πŸ˜† I said "Lah ibu juga sering makan sendiri! Terutama kalo ke Sushi Tei. Makan di bar sendiri. Atau ngopi. Nonton apalagi! Enak." Yuli was like "Oh iya ya bu... Ibu sering pergi sendiri 😳" Like always, the crew asked lots of questions. Especially when it was time to order. Dewi already knew a thing or two because she googled the menu at home πŸ˜‚ Yeah... Dewi always does her homework. I couldn't stop laughing because the maids kept comparing the steak prices to their daily groceries shopping. That instead of 1 steak, they could buy a week's or even a month's worth of groceries and stuff. It's always interesting to hear their stories. From Dewi-Yuli-Ari I know how they live their lives and everything. Especially about daily expenses. The waitress was also nice. When Yuli chose a certain drink, the waitress said politely "Ini ada alkoholnya ya bu..." Yuli immediately said no and her eyes grew bigger when I was drinking mine. "Bu! Nanti mabok bu!" πŸ˜„ I could see that she was really concerned about me. Dewi also kept reminding me to take my evening pills before bed instead of the usual 7pm because I had an alcoholic beverage. Meanwhile, after ordering her pasta πŸ˜‘, my girl strolled in and out the restaurant by herself. Yuli was really concerned. "Nanti si eneng nyasar bu!I had to calm her down and told her not to worry. 

And finally the juicy steaks were served on the table. I taught the Dynamic Duo how to use the fork and knife, what kind of sauce they should try etc. While everybody was enjoying their steaks, My Precious Godsend asked her mbas "Enak ga steak-nya? Mba Dewi suka? Mba Yuli suka? Senang ga ke sini?" πŸ€— And her mbas said "Seneng neeeeng! Steak-nya enaaak! Terima kasih ya neng!" Beside steaks we also had Typhoon Bloom (fried onion rings) and Crispy Volcano Shrimp which turned out to be everybody's favorite. When Yuli tried the onion rings she asked "Bu? Ini...bawang bombay? Ditepungin??? Larang tenan!" πŸ˜‚ I swear to you everytime Yuli commented on something I laughed and almost peed in my pants. Yuli has always been the funny one. Things that are..."normal" in her case can be funny and make me laugh. I assume that's why Dewi can get along very well with Yuli. 

The dinner was a major success. Maybe it was too successful because nobody made a sound all the way home πŸ˜‚ Our tummies were full and all we wanted was to lay down on our beds and go to sleep. Thankfully the traffic was okay and we arrived at home before 10pm. With sleepy eyes the Dynamic Duo and Ari thanked me and Kukka again and again and again. They said they also would send a thank you message to SiBapa. Seconds before I closed the door our house crew still expressed their gratitudes and prayers for SiBapa, Kukka and me. The 3 repeatedly said "Kalo bukan sama ibu dan bapa, ya mana bisa kita ke sini!" πŸ™‚

That night I went to sleep with a smile on my face. A smile of happiness and gratitude. I'm happy because we had the chance to share new experiences with the people who make our daily lives easier. I'm happy because they are happy. I'm grateful to have a husband who's always willing to share in whatever form of happiness can be shared. Especially to those who are not as fortunate as we are. And most of all I'm grateful that SiBapa and I can teach/show one meaningful lesson or 2 to our Beloved Godsend. I hope one day she'll understand it 
even more and will apply it to her own life. 
Amen πŸ₯°